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Why make it physical?

Love, a feeling of compassion and strong attraction towards a person with all the warmth in your heart without any describable reason. Too technical,aye? But it is true, there are no words to express something feeling and expressions, love is one such feeling. A feeling of being animated, a feeling of flying around, a feeling of being swept off the feet, a feeling of butterflies in the belly all the time. It is a very pure feeling and people who have been lucky enough to feel it are blessed. The commitment of being somebody's everything for all the time we have is what love teaches you. It demands only attention and care packaged in affection. All this seems to be an old book definition isn't it? Well may be it is, but this is what it means to me. Many people draw a futile conclusion that, falling in love is all about the physical bonding of themselves with their partners. Of course one point of time the physical bond comes to existence, but it is not all about that. Girls and boys put their physical priorities and zeal ahead of emotions and feelings. They are together under the name of love to quench some physical thirst and end up spoiling the purity of love. Is it all such mandatory to have a physical bond when in love? well i don't think so. It is a part of the special feeling we have but love on a whole is not only physical. It is majorly mental and emotional which is shown in physical means, if we put it in right ways. Am not able to understand why people put a board with the name love and have sex under the board? When they actually want only one thing they can rather pick up an escort and do what they want to do, at least they will be fair to themselves and do what they actually want to do without any false promises and delusional, only investment they need to make will be money. Hope these days will change and the mind set of people will come to normal soon.

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