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Ingredients of Friendship

Ingredients of friendship? Is that the question on your mind ? All right, I think a friendship is a recipe that has to be cooked with all the care and love garnished with affection and served in dishes of genuineness. Well that was one hell of a metaphor :P . No? Ignore it then may be , you know my skills ;) . Friends, I don't have anything new to describe this word. All I say is I have been that one piece of jigsaw which never got fit into any. I have a huge list of friends who know about the way I am, but a very few chosen closed ones. Regardless of what I act  like for a second in any situation, my friends read me and understand the reason behind my reaction. Well that what I at least expect. So the first ingredient being "Understanding". This is pretty important and I would prefer understanding to trust in friendship. If friends understand each other well then I suppose they will automatically know where to bet their money on when its a case of trust. The second one is being close and by saying to be close, I don't mean to sit around in company all day long and keep chattering about all the idle stuff in the world, I mean close as in the fingers of your hand, staying close always.You can't keep them far apart from each other for long, try that you will know for yourself, as I just did. Be genuine and try to speak you mind, this may be a bit harsh at first this will eventually help you share everything with them that eliminates lying and hiding things. Standing by your friends is the last part of this recipe as far as I think. No matter what, no matter when, and no matter where, just stand beside them you could only make them feel good. So, that my recipe of friendship what say? Worth giving a try? Just try it, could work out well.

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