Ingredients of friendship? Is that the question on your mind ? All right, I think a friendship is a recipe that has to be cooked with all the care and love garnished with affection and served in dishes of genuineness. Well that was one hell of a metaphor :P . No? Ignore it then may be , you know my skills ;) . Friends, I don't have anything new to describe this word. All I say is I have been that one piece of jigsaw which never got fit into any. I have a huge list of friends who know about the way I am, but a very few chosen closed ones. Regardless of what I act like for a second in any situation, my friends read me and understand the reason behind my reaction. Well that what I at least expect. So the first ingredient being "Understanding". This is pretty important and I would prefer understanding to trust in friendship. If friends understand each other well then I suppose they will automatically know where to bet their money on when its a case of trust. The second one is being close and by saying to be close, I don't mean to sit around in company all day long and keep chattering about all the idle stuff in the world, I mean close as in the fingers of your hand, staying close always.You can't keep them far apart from each other for long, try that you will know for yourself, as I just did. Be genuine and try to speak you mind, this may be a bit harsh at first this will eventually help you share everything with them that eliminates lying and hiding things. Standing by your friends is the last part of this recipe as far as I think. No matter what, no matter when, and no matter where, just stand beside them you could only make them feel good. So, that my recipe of friendship what say? Worth giving a try? Just try it, could work out well.
When I first came to know that I was doing to step into the boot of an employee very soon, I was preparing myself for a life completely different to what I was living. A new beginning from the end of student life, a life with financial freedom (although Dad never said “No” to my demands, but own earning is a different level of financial freedom) added responsibility of being an employee of an MNC. I was very certain of being relocated from Hyderabad. Had my bags up and ready for a journey to a new place with a new life style waiting to be discovered. As expected was called to Bangalore (now Bengaluru) and I set out planning a life in the traffic and all the rush of high class social and corporate living beings of IT Capital of India. Day 1: went on with never ending sequence of signatures. Day 2: a boring yet energetic half day. Day 3: very excitedly I reached office and was having a nice time cracking jokes and making friends. As if somebody cursed the largest laughter in t...
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